If you have committed, it is likely that hovers in the air, drink champagne, and I feel like a princess with her new bright ring. On the other hand, if you read this post, you can try to sober up and ask, "What the hell do I do now?"
Fear not. Let me help you. Follow these three tips that promise to start, and I, you will be well on your way down the aisle in style and with much less stress!Entertaining more
First Know your priorities, "pair"
The world is full of endless ideas wedding options and upgrades that make all the crazy, can be confused, and broke. I suggest you sit to-be husband and your two sheets of white paper. Each of you writes the first five most important elements of your wedding dress. Is it the food? The time of year? Size of the guest list? Budget? Music? After you have done so much to their lists, sit down and talk about them.
Use this list to another list, the shared priorities "and" the five most important elements of your wedding to create. Hello, team! Communication! This is what it is. Use this checklist to guide the process, and if all these extras begin to appear, refer to it as a guide (and believe me, you want). If the item or the item that you are not a priority, so that later on, when you sort on the budget and other important factors.
Second Talk about the money immediately
I always say, wedding budgets, such as gardens in the summer. They often grow faster than expected, and can dry out quickly, not if you keep your eye on them.
While the bride's family traditionally gathers most of the wedding expenses is, these days a wedding budget often by contributions from several sources (from both parents, and the couple, example). Make an appointment to those who sit a financial contribution to the wedding and honest about your expectations and reality. Do not go into debt for your wedding!
Tip: To open a special register and the savings account for their wedding expenses and pay all the money there. Make a budget and description of all wedding expenses in this account to check whether you have a clear view and track your spending.
Third Organize (and inspiration)
Create a place where you can keep all your wedding related contracts, receipts and correspondence to each other. A mail folder is not great, but I also recommend the purchase or a notebook or a folder where things like recommended invitation samples, tissue samples for the clothing and tablecloths, etc., all copies of the signed contract and proof of payment and, for all cases.
On the side of inspiration, take pictures from magazines that appeal (and even images of things that you do not like - after all, a picture is worth is, well, you know) for you to save and protect leaves for the page. Take your book with you to meet with caterers, florists and other wedding professionals and show his inspirations. Write adjectives that would create the mood you describe - vintage chic? Classic novel? Modern Zen?
If you are holding more obvious or have been on the market for a binder, look out my schedule simple wedding dresses impressive. It has everything from schedules, worksheets and lists of questions to suppliers of inspiration to many sites where you can taste or basic sketches to ask ... or just doodle while on the phone!
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